Good Quote to Deal with negative thoughts
Good Quote about Negative Thoughts
"If you realize how powerful you thoughts are, you would never think a negative thought." by: Peace Pilgram
During your difficult divorce, negative thoughts seem to pop up in your day more than expected. Keep a Positive out look on a new future. Change is difficult but keep your life flowing with good energy, negative thoughts can drain your body and energy.
Posted at 08:15PM Nov 08, 2009 by Victoria Luhring in Divorce and Your Home | Comments[0]
Government Grants
Available Government Grants
During divorce your income may substancially become low enough for you to qualify for one of the many government grants available. These grants are availalble for those facing extremely low income situations.
If divorce is putting you into a very low income situation, there may be a grant available to you. One of these grants may be just what you need until you get back on your feet.
Posted at 11:35AM Aug 18, 2009 by Victoria Luhring in Divorce and Your Home | Comments[0]
Control the Arguments
During Divorce start to Control the Arguments
It seems difficult but remember: " You don't have to attend every argument your invited to." Take control and refuse to participate.
Posted at 09:05AM Aug 16, 2009 by Victoria Luhring in Divorce and Your Home | Comments[0]
Don't Ruin Your Day
Divorce and Your Home - Don't let it Ruin your Day
" No one can ruin your Day without your Permission."
Posted at 08:56AM Aug 16, 2009 by Victoria Luhring in Divorce and Your Home | Comments[0]
Quotes that Help you through Divorce
Divorce and Your Home
It may seem too simple but reading some inspirational quotes can help motivate you in the New Direction your about to take. You may find a quote that inspires you and helps you deal with the changes and lifes difficult time.
Check out My Inspirational Quotes Blog and even find a favorite site that will send you quotes. Write down the ones that Inspire You.
People with Goals Succeed because they know where they are going."
Author : Earl Nightingale
Those who write down their goals and plan the steps they need to take each day, will succeed more often and reach that Goal
Posted at 08:52AM Aug 16, 2009 by Victoria Luhring in Divorce and Your Home | Comments[0]
Motivational Quote
Motivational Quotes help You, especially through Divorce
"We change the world not by what we say or do, but
as a consequence of what we have become."
— David R. Hawkins:Psychiatrist, spiritual author, and lecturer
Posted at 09:58AM Aug 14, 2009 by Victoria Luhring in Divorce and Your Home | Comments[0]
Mediation helps during Divorce
Divorce is always a difficult process, even if you know it's the right thing. For many couples, mediation can make it a little less painful.
In mediation, you and your spouse meet with a mediator to work out a divorce agreement. The mediator is neutral - not on one side or the other. He or she can help you discuss issues such as finances, property and custody and child support if you have children. Read Article by: Lila
Posted at 12:53PM Jun 05, 2009 by Victoria Luhring in Divorce and Your Home | Comments[0]
Surviving Divorce
When a divorce is immenent, it's time to address both the legel issues and the emotional titlewave your about to ride. Unless your a lawyer, the legel issues that will unfold are best left in the hand of a well chosen Lawyer. A good lawyer will be able to councel you through the neccessary legel issues and put some of your questions to rest. Don't fight the laws, work within the laws and the advice of your lawyer.
Steps to Building a Positive Support System: Surviving Divorce!
It's human nature to fear what you don't know and avoid change. You need to tell family and friends, which isn't easy, but this is an opportunity for some of those relationships to grow while getting their support.
It is counter-productive and damaging to use the children as leverage. When the boxing gloves go on for another round between you and your spouse, remember the strain it is putting on the children who are watching or listening. Children absorb everything and find ways to blaim themselves, become moody, scared, withdrawn and can sense hostility while feeling powerless and vulnerable.
Even an adult would have trouble dealing with all those emotions at once. The children need that secure feeling of love from both parents. A Mother and Father are the two most important people in the children's life, continue to give them the hugs they need, while supporting the love they have for your ex-spouse. If you can't find the right words to help calm your child, remember a good cuddling sometimes works.
Try to think of it as a chance at a New Positive Future. Think of it as a second chance or a do over. So many people say if they would have known at 18 what they knew at 40, things would be different. It's not to late to pretend your 18 again and start over with new dreams and goals.
Support can come from family, friends, church, neighbors, counceling groups, blogs, and even a good book.
Your getting a "Do Over"
Change can be hard but Good!
Add any helpful tips that you found useful here or at my other blog site and read tips that will help you decide if divorcing your title is the right step for your situation.
Posted at 12:46PM Jun 05, 2009 by Victoria Luhring in Divorce and Your Home | Comments[0]
Divorce and Your Home
Divorce and Your Home / Divorce the House?
Understandably this is an emotional subject because your home is where you nuture and provide for
those you love most. The place where everyone feels secure and can be themselves, shutting out the
stressful world. You may feel your divorce is now putting your safe haven at risk. Separate Home
decisions from your emotions, treat it like a business.
Don't let your emotions make decisions about your Real Estate. It's time to evaluate everything that
pertains to divorce and your home. Knowledge on this subject, not emotions, will help you make the
best decision for your situation.
1.) Equity
2.) Market Value
3.) Your Income after Divorce
4.) Liens
5.) Refinancing Options Available
6.) Percentage of Ownership
7.) Other Homes Available
It will be more important than ever to hire a realtor who is willing to put in the extra time that it will
take to help you handle this situation during a divorce. I understand what you are going through
and know the market well.
Family and friends can be helpful but so can a realtor who puts your real estate worries to rest.
Your energy can then be focused on yourself and the children.
Read More on My Divorce and Your Home Page.
Posted at 11:37AM May 12, 2009 by Victoria Luhring in Divorce and Your Home | Comments[0]
